Tuesday, May 1, 2012

 Sassy:  Mommy has an update about Auntie Judi-Bug for everyone:

Deb:  ML and I had a very emotional two days with our beloved Judi. It was so very hard to see her looking so frail, but we gave her many gentle hugs and kisses. 

ML and I decorated Judi's bedroom with all of beautiful cards that you have sent to her.  We did everything from making her laugh with our antics to lying in bed with her and just holding her hand.

Judi and I talk every day. We have done this since the first time that I met her about three years ago. I call her every morning and she greets me with "Hey Gal". It absolutely breaks my heart to know that we are going to lose such a wonderful soul. She and I just relaxed in her bed and had some private words. ML had her private time with Judi as well.  She and Judi exchanged many prayers, hugs and kisses.  We tried to surround her with as much love as possible.

We passed along to Judi all the love that everyone had asked us to give to her. I know that she took great comfort in all of that love and light.  She is enjoying all the cards and other sweet gifts that you have sent to her.

The hardest thing ML and I had to do was leave her. I don't know how much longer we will be privileged to have her here on earth, but I do know that heaven will receive an amazing soul and will be more glorious because of this beautiful lady.


27 comments:

Cat said...

It is so hard when something like this happens!!! Pancreatic cancer is a thief, it steals our loved ones from us (my brother too).

How wonderful that you were able to both spend such a meaningful and loving visit with Judi, I know you will cherish that time together always. It has been very difficult for me to read the updates about Judi and leave comments but she is in my prayers every single day!

Rene said...

What a sweet and wonderful post. It brought tears to my eyes. I can feel the love you have written, and I'm sure dear Judi knows this too. Hugs to you all.

Angel, Kirby and Max said...

It breaks my heart that we are loosing her. She is such a talented, loving lady.

Jacqueline said...

So glad you guys were able to visit and comfort each other...What is happening to precious Judi is heartbreaking and I know it's not easy for anyone who loves her; she has been such a lovely friend to me through the blogging community and this is really devastating...Sending comfort and love to her and her family/friends...hugs...J

Fuzzy Tales said...

I'm really glad you had this time with Judi, as difficult and heart-wrenching as it was. There have been two in my circle who have passed because of pancreatic cancer, one a distant relation and one a dear friend of my mom's, who I also had known through the years. I find the photos that have been posted of Judi to be so bittersweet, because I know we will lose her sooner than later. And even though most of us haven't met her in person and don't really know her, she still has touched us all in so many ways.

I continue to send universal Light and "prayers" to Judi and her family, and to all who do know her personally and love her dearly.

Peace and Blessings.

Kim

Brian's Home Blog said...

I am so glad you got to spend some much needed time together.

Cats of Wildcat Woods said...

Thank you for sharing this about your time with Judi. I lost my Dad to pancreatic cancer so I know what she is going thru. I know how hard it must have been to be with her knowing her days are numbered. Please send her our love next time you talk!

JC said...

Thank You for updating us on your trip to visit with Judi. I had been checking and noticed you hadn't blog about your time with her yet.

I think of her often.

I will continue to.

Let her know that when I went to the light for a bit (coma a few years ago) that I came back with a great feeling of peace. Not that that will help her but just so she knows.

xo,

JC and The Purr and Fur Gang

The Island Cats said...

We are so happy that you both were able to spend time with Judi. Even though we have never officially met Judi, we feel like we know her...and it makes us sad that she will be leaving us. We love her very much.

Katie Isabella said...

Mommy's eyes are leaking too much. She'll try to come back soon.

xoxoxox

Marg said...

Great post and so nice of you to update all with your wonderful visit to Judi. That was just so nice of you two to do that. It sure made me happy that you went to see her. Take care.

Gemini and Ichiro said...

I am certain that the time you spent together was very meaningful to her--how wonderful to have friends who would come all that way for you!

Sweet Purrfections said...

Thank you for the update and for sharing about your time with Judi-Bug. It's so nice that ML and Auntie Deb were able to visit and spend time with Judi. She's in our purrs and our mom's prayers.

Truffle and Brulee

The Florida Furkids said...

We all have leaky eyes after reading this post. We will continue to purr and pray for Judi-Bug and we're really glad that you all had a good visit.

The Florida Furkids

Asta said...

We can't even beaw thinking of hew leaving this eawf..I know you must have given hew enowmoos comfowt wif youw love and gentle hugs and many stowies..I hope she got ouw cawd too..ouw mail is not the best hewe, but we sent ouw love
smoochie kisses
ASTA

meowmeowmans said...

We are so glad you were able to spend such meaningful time with Judi. We love her, even though we have never met her in person. Big hugs from all of us.

Memories of Eric and Flynn said...

We are glad you were both able to spend some time with Judi, and are sure it must have brought her comfort to know she has such true friends. Although we have never met her in person, she is a dear friend and we are very sad that her time with us is drawing to a close. We send her our love and (((hugs)))

Sparkle said...

What a gift that you were able to visit with Judi - for all of you. I purr for her every day.

ANGEL ABBYGRACE said...

This is such a lovely post and we are so sad for MamaJudi. We are glad that you and ML were able to visit with her and spend that special time with her. WE know it helped cheer her up a lot.
xoxoxo

Mickey's Musings said...

Thank you for this lovely post. We are happy that you and ML got to spend time with Judi.It shows that people in the CB matter and care about one another. It is hard to accept that she will be leaving, but while she is here, we send her all the love and purrs she wants :)
Purrs Tillie and Georgia,
Tiger,Treasure and JJ
and mom Nancy

Angel Prancer Pie said...

We are so happy that you two and Judi had that time together, that is sumthing no one can take from you and you can hold onto forever. We just sent her another card and she's in our prayers daily.

MISS PEACH ~(^.^)~ said...

Dearest Deb...thank you so much for calling me today...I loved our talk. I loved hearing Sassy and Sam talk...I am always here for you...

Marilia said...

Great post.

Pip said...

Thank you, Auntie Deb. For being there for all of us. Your love surely helps Auntie Judi and her family. You are dear soul.
Love, dee

Clarissa said...

We are so glad that you there for Judi-Bug. Our mom knows how hard it is to watch someone you love fade away. Give Judi-Bug our love.

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